Moving On
Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself.
I sat in brooding for 1 year, thinking of all the possibilities of why, should have and could have.. nothing helped expect turning the pages and getting up the next day to let life roll on itself into something different
ReplyDeleteMoving on is a normal process of life it's a character of growth and intellectual intelligence.
DeleteMoving on sometimes is hard,being anchored to what you old most is physically exhausting.
Yet one should find the strength within to oppose such resistance.
Moving on is impossible if you didn't have closure, and weren't mentally convinced of the ending. You could visit that old place over and over until you believe you can get it and cure this. This thought will be your anchor to that memory and with you being a thoughtful person, it's almost impossible to dismiss it.
DeleteMoving on should include a substitute better enough to drive you voluntarily to let go of that possibilities past labyrinth and look forward.